Happiness comes from within. It is not dependent on external things or on other people. You become vulnerable and can be easily hurt when your feelings of security and happiness depend on the behavior and actions of other people. Never give your power to anyone else.
Dr. Brian Weiss is famous for his work and his books about reincarnation. It is a fascinating subject and one I believe in based on regressions of myself and family members, especially family members who do not even believe in reincarnation and who were not even intending to see past lives.
He has been told of The Masters, a group of entities in Spirit, connected with love and universal healing, who are available to guide him and others. He even wrote a book called Messages from the Masters. An overwhelming number of the messages also ring true with what I have been told by my guides and Spirit, like the information above.
I work with people who are afraid to change and afraid to do what makes them happy out of fear of upsetting others. Often this is actually a fear of being rejected by others. These fears make us afraid to feel anything negative and cause us to settle for less in life than what we need or deserve. It also makes us assume how other people feel and how they may act, which isn’t fair and is actually a form of arrogance. We are trying to control others through our actions rather than letting them be free to be themselves.
Do not be afraid to feel – positive or negative feelings. You don’t have to act on everything you feel but pushing down your feelings creates blocked and limited energy. It makes sleeping difficult because the feelings are just stuck in our heads, ready to play over and over again when we try to be still. You may even avoid stillness and live in chaos to avoid these feelings, but you don’t have to. We are always protected and always safe. All God wants us to do is to be our true selves.